CONSENT at events for new AND experienced people!

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Consent is: FRIES:

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• F - Freely given. Doing something intimate with someone is a decision that should be made without pressure, force, manipulation, or while drunk or high.

• R - Reversible. Anyone can change their mind about what they want to do, at any time. Even if you’ve done it before or are in the middle of being intimate.

• I - Informed. Be honest. For example, if someone says they’ll use a condom when you get home and then they don’t, that’s not consent.

• E - Enthusiastic. If someone isn’t excited, or really into it, that’s not consent.

• S - Specific. Saying yes to one thing (like going to the bedroom to make out) doesn’t mean they’ve said yes to others.

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Also remember if you are meeting people and planning to play with them at an event, those of you that are more experienced or more dominant have a role to help guide the less experienced or more submissive.

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That means making sure you fully discuss all aspects of consent and work out what you are and are not prepared to do in as much detail as possible.

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You have to assume that new people don't understand about consent.

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Intimate acts include watching others and doing things to yourself - please don't do this unless you are 100% sure it is consensual with everyone involved and of course totally legal.

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Any breaches of consent will not be tolerated at our events. We take this VERY seriously and appreciate your help and support in this matter.

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Love you all.

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David and crew x